Wednesday, July 6, 2011

The Rules Of Ladies

No.1 - Play hard to get.

No.2 - Be the woman a man needs, not the woman that needs a man.

No.3 - Always accept a compliment.

No.4 -  If he leaves or gives up on you, remember, it’s his lost. Not yours.

No.5 - If he doesn’t respect you, then you deserve better.

No.6 - You’re beautiful and no one has the rights to tell you you’re not.

No.7 - Don’t fall for a guy who isn’t willing to catch you.

No.8 - Embrace your flaws and be true to who you really are.

No.9 - Never lose faith in finding your perfect someone.

No.10 - Look like a butterfly, sting like a bee.

No.11 - Cover up. Being a mystery is more sexy than showing every inch of yourself off.

No.12 - Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.

No.13 - The little black dress is a classic for a reason. 

No.14 - A real lady holds her head high, but never her nose. 

No.15 - Never underestimate the power of warm greeting.

No.16 - For the love of decency, never chew with your mouth open.

No.17 - A lady knows her limits no matter what, stick to your gun.

No.18 - Never make him carry your chihuahua unless you don’t want him around for very long.

No.19 - If you expect him to give you girl time, expect to give him guy time.

No.20 - A subtle, yet noticeable lip bite possesses exceptional power. Use with caution.

No.21 - True beauty comes from within.

No.22 - Confidence is sexy.

No.23- Never let a man define you. Be amazing on your own.

No.24-You might feel worthless to one person, but you’re priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value. -Luan Legacy.

No.25- Don’t get your hopes up, don’t let your guard down.

No.26- If you’re not worth the trouble then he’s not the worth the time.

No.27- Be refined, polite and well-spoken.

No.28- Act like a lady, think like a man.

No.29- Be classy&fabulous always.

No.30- Always be yourself around him. If he can’t accept you for your quirks, then he’s not worth it.

No.31- Remember; if he wants to, he will.

No.32- Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady.

No.33- If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best. -Marilyn Monroe

No.34- Never regret something that once made you smile. 

No.35- Be brave, be bold and the guy will be yours.

No.36- A true lady doesn’t start fights, but sure knows how to finish them.

No.37- Make him chase you. 

No.38- Do not stereotype guys; they’re definitely not all the same.

No.39- Always classy. Never trashy. Just a little nasty.

No.40- Just as men shouldn’t play with women’s heart, women shouldn’t play with men’s heart as well.

No.41-If you don’t stand up for yourself, no one will.

No.42- Arch your spine, and shoulders back. This is a good posture. You are not confident until you decide to be.

No.43-Never underestimate the power of a name. Use them. Be remembered.

No.44- You can never be beautiful unless you’re happy.

No.45- Chew like you have a secret.

No.46- Always have a comeback.

No.47- Maintain your mystery; men love a good hunt.

No.48- One can never be too classy.

No.49- If he does not have a chance, tell him. Don’t lead him on and make him think that he has a chance when he does not.

No.50- To the world you may just be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

No.51- Don’t wait for Prince Charming to come and save you. Remember, being independent is more attractive to men.

No.52- If you love him, tell him. Chances are, he’ll feel the same about you. 

No.53- Flirt with him enough to show your interest. But tease him enough to make him chase you.

No.54- You will never find the right guy if you are looking for the wrong reasons.

No.55- Never turn around to look back. Without doubt, he’s still looking at you.

No.56- Skirts should be like tumblr posts; long enough to cover the subject but short enough to keep things interesting.

No.57- No man is worth your tears, and the one who us won’t make you cry.

No.58- Beauty get the attention, but personality gets the heart.

No.59- You’re beautiful in every single way.

No.60- A sincere smile is a lady’s most beautiful feature.

No.61- It’s better to be hated for who you are than be loved for someone you’re not.

No.62- “Anorexia is a disease. Not a fashion statement.” -Sophia Bush

No.63- Modesty isn’t always overrated. A little mystery never hurt anyone.

No.64- Don’t just expect to find love, wait and it will come.

No.65- A guy doesn’t ever have to be more than a friend, sometimes things are better that way.

No.66- Ladies should never hit a man either. Violence isn’t classy.

No.67- You shouldn’t need to raise your voice. If you’re dealing with a person who won’t listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren’t worth dealing with.

No.68- Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real.

No.69- A man willing to do anything just to place a smile on your face is one worth keeping. 

No.70- Be happy. Someone could be falling for your smile. 

No.71- Never make a man a priority in your life if you are just an option in his. 

No.72- A lady should be able to make a man smile with her clothes on.

No.73- Talk loud enough so people can hear you, but soft enough so he’ll have to lean in closer.

No.74- Being different doesn’t mean you’re uncanny. You’re just limited edition.

No.75- A man forgets, but never forgives. But a lady, forgives. But never forgets.

No.76- “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different” -Coco Chanel

No.77- “Always dress like you’re going to see your worst enemy.” -Kimora Lee Simmons

No.78- Leave the rumor-spreading and trash talking to Gossip Girl.

No.79- Always arrive at a dinner party 15 minutes late. There’s nothing wrong with being fashionably late.

No.80- Never show you’re intimidated, it shows weakness.

No.81- Remember; the treasure doesn’t do the hunting. 

No.82- Make a man fall for your intelligence, not for your body and your double Ds.

No.83- Always act like you are wearing an invisible crown.

No.84- Respect from others come from self-respect.

No.85- “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt

No.86- A lady should not swear. Class is defined by elegance and dignity, not by vulgar language.

No.87- It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.

No.88-Being intelligent is sexy, don’t play stupid. 

No.89- Just because someone invites you to drama does not mean you have to RSVP.

No.90- Look up the definition of sophistication. Embody it. 

No.91- Ladies, never label yourself as a dime. Keep in mind that real women don’t worry about being dimes because real mean don’t carry change.

No.92- Remember; All limitations are self imposed.

No.93- “Be the flame, not the moth.” -Casanova

No.94- A lady should never throw a punch, the world is already as cruel as it is, let the universe take care of them.

No.95- Take a risk, even if you fall. Because if that’s what you really want, it should be worth it all. 

No.96- When asked for suggestion, don’t be afraid to give your opinion. Being assertive is an attractive feature, indecisiveness is not.

No.97- You were born an original. Don’t become a copy.

No.98- “A wise girl kisses but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe and leaves before she is left.” -Marilyn Monroe 

No.99- Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.

No.100- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

No.101- Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius. It’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.

No.102- “If you must say yes, say it with an open heart. If you must say no, say it without fear.” -Paulo Coelho

No.103- If he’s willing to cheat with you, he’s willing to cheat on you. 

No.104- Crying does not mean you are weak. Not crying does not mean you are strong. Never be afraid of being yourself.

No.105- Every day is a fashion show and the world is your runway. So always dress your best and walk with confidence.

No.106- Success is the best revenge.

No.107- Never be afraid to love. You’ll sabotage yourself without knowing.

No.108- The moment you stop looking for something, you will find it.

No.109- It’s better to be alone and dignified, than to have companionship and be taken advantage of.

Disclaimer: I did not write these. I am not telling anyone how to act or who to be. I'm not telling you how to live your life. I'm not forcing this upon anyone. This is my blog, and I post for myself... not to make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Okay? Okay! 


  1. This is great Rachael! Thanks so much!!!!!

  2. I've seen something similar to this before and I think it's fantastic. I agree with almost every single one. The Marilyn Monroe quote has always been one of my favorites. :)


  3. Great list! I need to let my daughters read it too!

    ...and I love your disclaimer :-)


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